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None of the Above is a very interesting look into the life of one teenage girl who discovers that she's intersex, and before even processing what that means, has her entire school find out. When Kristin and her boyfriend tried to have sex, there was a lot more pain and discomfort than she thought there would be. After seeing an OB/GYN, she learns that she has no uterus, her vagina is short, and she has testes. Kristin's whole world and sense of identity is thrown for a loop.

I did enjoy None of the Above quite a bit, but for me, it felt more educational than anything else. I simply didn't connect with Kristin, so she basically became this vessel for information on intersexuality. It is obvious that the author wanted to inform us while also making Kristin someone you wanted to cheer for, but that didn't happen for me. I think most of this had to do with how much of a blank slate Kristin was. I get that she's shocked by her diagnosis, but every conversation with her was an explanation because she didn't know anything about anything. I found that hard to believe since she's a runner and knew about Caster Semenya, so she should have had some kind of idea about something.

None of the Above was still a very good read. I came from it feeling like I know a lot more about what it means to be intersex, and about the different forms that it can take. But other than being more informed, it didn't leave me with any emotional impressions. It was awful what happened to Kristin at school, but everything felt so scripted in a way to give us maximum information. Even the minor romance felt forced to push the idea that intersex people can still have relationships.


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None of the Above I W Gregorio Books Reviews

With having been away at the beach, I've done a ton of reading in the last couple of weeks, and some of the books I've read have been really enjoyable.

Like this one which I've been wanting to read since I first heard about it, and have been waiting and waiting for the library to stock. When they didn't, I bit the bullet and bought a copy of my own.

It is the story of a girl called Kristin who is elected Homecoming Queen, is a rising track star and has a wonderful boyfriend. But when she and Sam decide to take their relationship to the next level, sex isn't the wonderful, pleasurable expression of love she was expecting. A second attempt isn't much better, so Kristin decides to go and see a doctor.

What she discovers about herself is frightening she's intersex. While outwardly she looks like a girl, she doesn't have a womb. Oh, and she does have testes, she's just never noticed them because they're inside her.

The book explores how Kristin navigates this new discovery about herself and how it changes her preception of herself. It also explores the reactions of the people around her as they struggle to understand (and largely fail) what it means to be intersex.

I really enjoyed this book and hope it becomes widely read in schools and beyond so people can get a better understanding of what being intersex is, and how painful it can be to discover something like that about yourself at a time when you're already fighting to find your true identity on so many other levels.
I purchased this book as part of a 30 Days of Pride Book Review project. This is that review

Kristin Lattimer is sure of a lot of things. She's sure that she and her boyfriend Sam are absolutely in love. She's sure she's going to state in the fall on a full track scholarship. She's sure her best friend would never betray her trust. And she never had any reason to doubt that she was 100 percent a girl. Then, her gynecologist informs her that she has Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome, or AIS, which means that although her outsides appear feminine her chromosomes are male and, she's horrified to learn, she even has some boy “parts” inside of her. In the aftermath of this discovery all the things she had been so sure of are one by one stripped away and she is left to start from scratch, answering the question of who she is, who she can trust, and how she wants to live her life.

This is a unique “coming-out” story, because Krissy is coming to terms with a medical diagnosis, being told she is intersex, which then becomes known by others before she is ready to even decide how she wants to identify. Being outed, shortly after she learns this fact about her body, makes coming to terms with this side of her a lot more difficult than it would have been for someone who had time to process her emotions and start the long journey of feeling unity with her genetic sex, her external sexual characteristics, and her gender identity. Krissy is kind of thrown into the deep end of all of this immediately.

This novel is, at its core, a journey of personal discovery. Krissy has to step back from all the assumptions she's made about who she is and redefine her identity. This painful process is well articulated, steering through her sudden body dysphoria, her classmates transphobia, and the way her own fears about what this diagnosis means strain her relationships with everyone else still in her life.

It's thoughtful and emotionally wrought.

There is, however, no mistaking this as anything but an “issues” novel. Like if this were a movie, it would be a lifetime movie of the week. So, through research, therapy, and support groups, we are inundated with what it means to be intersex and what it means to be a woman. We get lessons on the definitions of terms; sexuality, sex, gender identity, how they intersect and dovetail and how they diverge. It's good information for those people out there not “in the know.” It's just, as I've said about other YA “issues” novels, you can feel the author attempting to educate you, and at times that intention seems to overpower the more important intention of telling a story.

That being said, I do recommend this book. I think intersex stories should be told and listened to. I think Krissy’s struggle, coming to terms with her identity, will strike a chord with anyone who has become an outsider or worried about where they fit into the scheme of things.

Next, the project scales

On my Queer Counterculture Visibility Scale, which I invented to quantify how much I felt a book highlights the less visible members of the community, this book does pretty well. There is a lot of prejudice and misunderstanding about people who are intersex, so an intersex point of view character gets a lot of points from me. On top of that, as I said, there are a lot of other things being explored, transphobia, sex vs gender, sexuality. A side character deals with how his father's sexuality affected his own identity when he was younger. A side character, an intersex woman who is more comfortable in her body, proudly identifies as a lesbian. While, most of the main characters are upper middle class and (aside from a few Asian-American characters) white, I did find some diversity in perspective. I'm rating it

4 out of 5 stars

On the genre expectation scale it does okay. It is very much a “woman finds herself after a difficult truth comes to light” movie of the week kind of story. It hits all the expected benchmarks. I'd like to say that having an intersex main character set it notably apart from other stories like it… but… I'll give it

3.5 out of 5 stars
None of the Above is a very interesting look into the life of one teenage girl who discovers that she's intersex, and before even processing what that means, has her entire school find out. When Kristin and her boyfriend tried to have sex, there was a lot more pain and discomfort than she thought there would be. After seeing an OB/GYN, she learns that she has no uterus, her vagina is short, and she has testes. Kristin's whole world and sense of identity is thrown for a loop.

I did enjoy None of the Above quite a bit, but for me, it felt more educational than anything else. I simply didn't connect with Kristin, so she basically became this vessel for information on intersexuality. It is obvious that the author wanted to inform us while also making Kristin someone you wanted to cheer for, but that didn't happen for me. I think most of this had to do with how much of a blank slate Kristin was. I get that she's shocked by her diagnosis, but every conversation with her was an explanation because she didn't know anything about anything. I found that hard to believe since she's a runner and knew about Caster Semenya, so she should have had some kind of idea about something.

None of the Above was still a very good read. I came from it feeling like I know a lot more about what it means to be intersex, and about the different forms that it can take. But other than being more informed, it didn't leave me with any emotional impressions. It was awful what happened to Kristin at school, but everything felt so scripted in a way to give us maximum information. Even the minor romance felt forced to push the idea that intersex people can still have relationships.